Jake
I have 2 partners, well most of the time. It costs us around 2k a month that includes 450 rent 600 elec and the rest is supplies, ie : dirt, clay balls, bags, NUTRIENTS, tying sticks and tape. We harvest prolly 3-4 lbs a month. Right now that works out for a pound each and 1 for the shop. We could increase production by atleast double but then we get into the problem of storing that much and it makes us nervous "I'm to pretty for jail". As far as the law is concerned they have no reason to come into our place. That being said I'm sure if the neighbors started complaining the cops would show up. might get a little hairy but our paperwork is in order so no worries. That brings up a good point. DON'T TELL ANYBODY WHERE YOUR GARDEN IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OR THAT YOUR A GROWER and that shouldn't be a problem. Equate to prepping if they know they will come and get it.
As far as the wife is concerned, there are ALOT of ways to take it - smoking bud and hash, butter, oil, tictures, teas
Books-
http://www.amazon.com/Marijuana-Horticulture-Outdoor-Medical-Growers/dp/187882323X is a great place to start.
I would say if your not gonna be compliant dont do it on your dirt. Rent a place
As far as convincing the wife of the benefits grab a High Times they usually have a couple of feel good stories, i read that there is a guy in cananda making oil from pressing, who has cured cancer. Doesnt get better than that. Oh ya get her high then we will see what side of the fence she is on.
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